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20th May 2025

Wedding Reception vs. Wedding Ceremony: What’s the difference?

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The main difference between a wedding ceremony and a wedding reception is their purpose: the ceremony is when the couple gets legally and emotionally married, while the reception is the celebration that follows.

In this guide, we’ll break down what happens at each event, why they matter, and how to plan both parts. Plus, knowing the difference might save you from planning a champagne toast before the vows. That’s a slippery slope.

What Is a Wedding Ceremony?

Wow, what a great question!

The wedding ceremony is the formal part of your big day—the moment where the legal, emotional, and sometimes spiritual commitment happens. Basically, it includes:

  • Vows and ring exchange
  • Signing the marriage certificate
  • Emotional readings, music, or performances
  • A lot of crying
  • Optional religious or cultural rituals
  • Becoming lovers for ever and ever

Ceremonies can be religious or non-religious, short and sweet or long and traditional, held in anything from a centuries-old chapel to your friend’s backyard—all you need to know is that this is the serious bit.

What Happens at the Wedding Reception?

Now THIS is where the party comes in and the real shenanigans occur. After the big feelings and deep breaths of the ceremony, the reception is where you exhale, unbutton your dress trousers, and consume copious amounts of canapés and Prosecco.

Basically, it involves:

  • Cocktail hour and dinner
  • Speeches and toasts
  • First dance and cake cutting
  • Dancing and socialising
  • Late-night snacks <3

It’s your chance to eat, drink, dance, and truly understand what you’ve gotten yourself into when your partner’s family hits the dance floor. It’s loud, it’s joyous, someone ends up barefoot by midnight, and no one knows where the bouquet went.

While the ceremony is the tea leaves, the reception is the water (you get me?) that brings it altogether.

So… Do You Need Both a Wedding Reception and a Wedding Ceremony?

Honestly? Whether or not you need both depends entirely on you. Eloping? You might only want the ceremony. Hosting a traditional wedding? You’ll likely want both. Somewhere in between? Totally valid.

But if you’re planning a traditional wedding, yes, both parts are typically included. The ceremony gives the day its emotional core, and the reception lets you celebrate that core—preferably while eating something iconic (e.g. a chocolate statue of your face, circa 2013).

How to Plan Both Without Losing Your Mind

And if that’s not clear enough, I have a little guide to help you make sure the day stays on track (and maybe even enjoy it) <3

1. Keep the vibe cohesive but distinct

It’s okay if your ceremony is soft and romantic while your reception is moody and bold, but just make sure they don’t clash—unless a Celtic harp giving way to Viking drinking horns is your vibe. In which case, I fully support.

2. Reuse and repurpose

Want to save money and reduce waste? Good on you. Maybe you might consider some of these options:

  • Ceremony floral arch = Reception photo backdrop
  • Aisle runners = Table runners
  • Calming pre-vow lavender mist = Evening signature scent

3. Timing is everything

Don’t leave your guests awkwardly lingering between ceremony and reception, and instead consider filling the gap with drinks, canapés (man I just love these things), live music—or even a lawn game or two—to keep the mood buoyant and the guests fed.

4. Prioritise what matters

If you want a quick ceremony and a long, raucous reception, do that. If you want a deeply meaningful ceremony followed by a tiny tea ceremony afterward with just ten friends and your dog—also valid. There’s no wedding police (unless you invite them. In which case… bold choice).

FAQ + Final Recap

Can you have a wedding without a reception?
Yes! Elopements and micro-weddings often skip the reception.

Can you have a reception without a ceremony?
Technically, yes—but people might wonder what they’re celebrating.

How long should a reception be?
Typically 4–6 hours, but it depends on your vibe (and your stamina).

How do I transition from ceremony to reception smoothly?
Keep guests entertained with drinks, snacks, music, or a quick venue change with clear signage.

ASPECTWEDDING CEREMONYWEDDING RECEPTION
PurposeLegal/emotional unionCelebration
ToneFormal, sentimentalSocial, festive
IncludesVows, reading, signingFood, drinks, dancing
LengthShorterLonger
SettingChapel, garden, city hallBanquet, backyard, rooftop

To Conclude <3

At the end of the day, it’s not about perfection. It’s about love, laughter, and the kind of celebration that feels like you—with just the right amount of mysteriously unnamed caffeinated beverages (tea-hee).

So whether you’re planning a quiet ceremony in the woods, a rooftop bash that goes until 4am, or both—make it yours. Make it meaningful. And when in doubt, plan the kind of day where your grandma cries at the vows and your best friend cries at the tequila.

Sascha Michel
Sascha co-founded Canvas with Antony in 2013. Prior to Canvas Sascha led a number of start-ups including one of the first online restaurant guides back in the days of 56k dial-up, and a first of its kind startup in sustainability, combating climate change by "greening" offices. With a background in organisational change and people development, Sascha brings a wealth of experience in team development, product, coaching, sales, management and operations. Sascha is dedicated to inner transformation and learning, and if he isn’t in London, he’s either on retreat or in Bali "conducting important research".
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